Now I’m no love expert – as a matter of fact, I can use some help myself! Here’s where I think things can get tricky: Imagine you’re talking to your man or woman and notice that their eyes are drifting off mid-conversation or they look down at their phone. Is that a red flag for you and your relationship? How do you know if your significant other is REALLY listening to you when you speak and actually retaining the information?
In my mind, if a person really loves you or wants to show you that they care, they will give you their undivided attention, listen to your advice and follow it or even challenge you. Don’t get me wrong, arguing can be a big NO NO, especially when you are first starting out. I’m talking about speaking his or her mind.
Either way, if your partner is listening, I think it’s fair to say they are into you.
If your partner just views your relationship as merely a physical thing, then most likely they won’t care about your words as much as they do about your body.